No Stress Allowed!

The biggest mistake I see most people make before an international adventure is getting caught up in pre-departure stress. Somewhere between the viscous cramming of suitcases, getting passport photos made, and setting up traveller’s insurance, people forget that they were even looking forward to their trip in the first place. Getting all of your affairs in order is crucial to the success of an extended trip abroad, so take a deep breath and call to mind that moment of passion that first inspired you to plan your trip.
 

Two years ago I about let the stress overwhelm me before I ever left the states. Being a dual citizen in the U.S. and Germany, I had to jump through all sorts of hoops to get two passports in order before my departure. This involved multiple trips to the local pharmacy to get photos made since I lost the first set I got, a six hour drive to Atlanta to visit the nearest German embassy for one measly thumbprint, and three nail-biting weeks of waiting by the mailbox for my new passport to arrive. I was freaking out about how I was going to pack eight months of necessities into a suitcase and a duffel bag, when in hindsight, I could have taken half the stuff and been just as happy, if not more. 

 So this time around, as I enter the ten day countdown until liftoff, I am investing my energy into much wiser things than stress. Organization and attention to detail have been imperative to the success of warding of that pre-flight stress. My pre-departure To Do List has really helped me keep my head screwed on straight. It includes things like scheduling auto-withdrawals for my student loan repayment plan and monthly mutual fund contributions, as well as padding my bank account with enough money to feed those things while I’m away. I am also researching travel insurance options, international cell phone plans, and getting an international drivers license.

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I filled one small suitcase a week ago with my warmest and most durable clothing, as well as a week’s worth of socks and underwear, a black belt, and my treasured pair of Reef flip flops with the bottle-openers on the soles. All of those other little things that make my world go ’round—including my laptop, ukulele, toiletries, and sunglasses—are neatly typed into a word document so that I can be sure to put them in my backpack the night before I depart. Click HERE to see my comprehensive packing lists for both warm and cold season backpacking.

One pre-departure hurtle that I stampeded right through is ironically linked to one of my otherwise greatest achievements: graduating from college. Due to this fact, I am currently ineligible for both an international student ID and international student hostel membership. These things should have been taken care of much further in advance. There is an alternative to these things, an International Youth Card available from STA Travel, but the benefits of it are not nearly as nuce as the student cards. 

I am taking very seriously the fact that backpacking through Europe will be strenuous and taxing on my body. That is why I am eating smart and training everyday to keep myself fit and healthy. If you intend to travel on a budget as tight as mine (I am aiming to spend as little as $30 a day), you will likely be spending a great deal of time on your feet as you wander through cities and countryside alike with your thumb stuck out. For this reason, I run at least three miles a day on hilly terrain, incorporating pushups, crunches, and pullups from tree branches into my routine. While I seriously contemplated it, there is no need to waste money on a gym membership when all you need to stay in shape is freely located just outside your door. It doesn’t need to be an extreme Spartan Race regiment, just something habitual that gets your body working. 

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Remember, stay positive in your last few days at home. Get that dopamine flowing by continuing to check items off your To Do List, exercising daily, and treasuring bittersweet moments with the friends and family that you will soon be leaving behind. Smile big and brag to everyone you know about how excited you are! This is the time to be getting pumped, not getting down.

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7 thoughts on “No Stress Allowed!”

  1. Nolen,
    I can’t wait to hear about your up coming adventures. Have fun! Stay safe!
    Wendy
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  2. Enjoyed your first post, and looking forward to future ones! While I did not check your To Do list, I am sure you won’t be surprised that Basil and I have one too – even for weekend getaways. I loved your first post, and hope that I can learn the lesson of not stressing, and keeping up my excitement level pre traveling. You are correct – planning well ahead is key. I might add that once the trip has begun, being flexible is the key to enjoying it. I know you will do that! I won’t keep posting comments – I know you have better things to do on your travels than read them, but do know we will be following your travels! P&B

    • Great to hear from you both! If you find yourself in Europe in the near future, drop me a line. It would be wonderful to cross paths again and maybe share a nostalgic lunch somewhere. Feel free to drop a comment whenever you like, you’d be surprised how much spare time one comes across when vagabonding to read such things. Thanks again for all the opportunities you gave me this last year, and thank you for the generous retirement bonus–I’m not sure I ever properly thanked you all for that.

  3. Nolen,
    Although they have been expecting this travel adventure, remember your parents got you ready to be independent and a world traveler, but they didn’t really prepare themselves. I know, been there – done that! Have wonderful an adventurous journey and find many gifts along your journey. Your parents will be following daily (as well as a lot of us). As I told Pete, I life vicariously through his adventures. Take care and be safe and have a blast!
    Much Love,
    Diane

    • Hey Diane, I just saw your message on my website! I have tried my best to prepare my parents for this by reassuring them of my plans and places I’ll be staying along the way, but I know it will still be hard for them–especially my mom. I will be calling and writing home as often as possible, but I know they will need friends like you to be there for them too in my echoing absence. Thanks again for the positive thoughts!

  4. Just got off the phone talking to your dad. Will follow you with interest.
    Ever need a bed or to doss during your travels in the UK – there is one here.

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